ATTENTION: People With LOVED ONES With Borderline Personality Disorder OVER 18 to 60 Years Old…
Tue, 08 Jul 2025
From: David Oliver
Mental Health Advocate, Borderline Expert, and Seasoned Borderline Researcher
Dear Fellow Borderline Supporter,
Imagine you could end pain, confusion and frustration that Borderline personality disorder is causing you and your family. Imagine fewer fights...
Less Borderline anger…
Less crazy Borderline behavior.
Imagine fewer arguments. Fewer ups and downs. Slowing down the impact of your loved one's Borderline personality disorder which--up to now--has been gradually taking over and interfering with your life.
Imagine finally having some peace back in your life because you and your loved one finally understand how to cope and deal with this devastating disorder.
If you support a loved one with Borderline who is hard to predict and understand for seemingly random and inappropriate reasons...
If you're exhausted from walking on eggshells because it only takes "one wrong step" to set them off (and you're about to pull out what's left of your hair)…
If you're utterly exhausted from taking the abuse, but you still love and want to support their recovery from this dreadful disorder...
Then you’re going to be thrilled your journey brought you to this page!...
"Hi, my name is David Oliver. I am one of the nation's leading experts on helping Borderline Supporters. Please give me a few minutes to tell you my story and explain how I learned so much about coping and dealing with a loved one’s Borderline personality disorder… and in particular the crazy, irrational anger which so often accompanies it!
Hi, my name is David Oliver. I am one of the nation's leading experts on helping Borderline Supporters.
Please give me a few minutes to tell you my story and explain how I learned so much about coping and dealing with a loved one’s borderline personality disorder.
Ten years ago, I was typing the phrase "Bipolar Disorder" and variations of those words into every search engine on the Internet just hoping to find a magic solution that would end my nightmare.
I read through website after website trying to track down answers...
That’s when I discovered Borderline Personality Disorder and noticed my mom had the same symptoms that I was reading online.
I searched for reasons, guidance, even just someone to talk to. All I found was the same old rehashed information.
It was very clear to me my mom had signs and symptoms of both disorders and I need some serious help and information.
Nothing useful, and certainly nothing that told me how to help a loved one cope with Bipolar OR Borderline Personality Disorder. And absolutely nothing which told me how to cope and deal with a loved one’s borderline personality disorder which—you and I both know—is NOT an easy task, right?
It was incredibly frustrating. I was literally at the end of my rope because every day seemed like one long, never-ending bad dream that I couldn't wake up from.
You see, my mother, who has had bipolar and borderline personality disorder since she was born, was in the middle of a major episode...
It was probably the worst she had ever experienced. And I had stepped in to be her primary supporter.
All the days of abuse, yelling, and screaming had taken their toll on me (the same feeling you've probably had with taking care of your loved one - the stress is incredible, isn't it?).
But the Internet was just the start of my research.
I devoured everything I could find at the library, including boring, technical medical journals and dozens of books. I tracked down every expert I could find, in all disciplines. from physician, to therapist, to pharmacist and beyond.
And during my 9-month journey... I went from knowing nothing about her disorder and having NO idea how to copy and deal with her anger and the entire I love You/I hate you situation we had going on (and other symptoms)….to realizing I personally had become an expert on the topic!
And after my months of research, I can tell you one thing for sure: If you're supporting someone with borderline, you’ve got a better chance of winning one of those multi-state lotteries than finding the information you need to help your loved one SUCCESSFULLY cope with borderline personality disorder…
And even less of a chance of learning how YOU can cope and deal with their borderline personality disorder!
Why?
Because nearly all of the information that's available is produced by doctors and professors who have a clinical relationship with borderline personality disorder - NOT by people who are forced to deal with the irrational yelling, screaming, and arguing. NOT by people who are living with consequences of the disorder day in and day out.
You don't need cold, clinical theories from physicians who spend a few hours a day tending patients with borderline. You need coping strategies that can work... from people who’ve actually walked in your shoes day in, day out for years. People who’ve SOLVED the problem…
Let me tell you how my family has been affected by my mom's long struggle with bipolar and borderline personality disorder.
My mother has had four major episodes in her life. Those are the kind of episodes where she has to be hospitalized for more than 10 days. Based on my calculations, that was one major episode every 7 years or so.
Each time, she would become super angry. She would first lash out against my dad. She would scream and yell at him. Next it would be my brother (whenever he was actually around.)Then finally me. Lucky me
It was bad over the years.
But the last time it happened, it was much, much worse...
My mother had turned into a completely different person. She wouldn't eat or sleep. She only yelled, screamed, and said extremely hurtful things to my father and myself. Since my brother doesn't like to deal with the problem, he never made himself available, if you know what I mean.
Mom would flip out on us for no reason. We could just say the slightest thing to her and BOOM she was super mad at all of us.
My dad usually just avoided her.
My natural-but-unfortunate response was to argue back, I got super mad at her and let her know…
Let me tell you, this does NOT work. (Read that sentence again please…it could save you a LOT of pain!)
Anyway, for about a month, my mom was on a rampage.
She hated all of us she use to like/love. It was so strange.
She missed many days of work and finally stopped going altogether. Even then, she would call her job at least 6 to 8 times a day. She would also call family members and friends just to say mean things to them. I can't tell you how many people she alienated in that very short period of time.
If that wasn't bad enough, my mom then started to flat out make things up. She would tell people that I said this or that my dad had said that when in reality, we hadn't said anything of the sort.
She'd also say other people told her things which I later found out were completely untrue. (Nobody told her anything)
It was so bad we couldn't tell when she was telling the truth or telling a lie.
I finally decided Mom needed to go to the hospital...
Of course, she refused. She screamed that she was fine. She told me I needed to go to the hospital, not her! She insisted all of her "supporters" said she would get better at home. She called me a "terrible son" and demanded I "get out" of her life "forever."
And that was just the beginning.
She continued to swear at me and to throw everything she could get her hands on at me. She repeatedly demanded I leave the house and leave her alone because she never wanted to see me again.
Initially, I thought about following my brother's lead and pretending there was no problem. I could just close my eyes, cross my fingers, and hope that everything would work itself out.
But I just couldn't do it. You see, my dad has quite a few health problems, including congestive heart failure, diabetes, high blood pressure, etc. I was worried my mom's screaming would cause him to eventually have a heart attack.
So, to protect my dad's health I just spoke to my mom every morning so she could scream and yell at me for at least an hour. EVERY DAY for 4 straight weeks she screamed at me every morning and again when I called her at night. For about two hours a day, I let her scream at me so I could divert at least some of her anger away from my dad.
After searching for awhile, I was able to find the name of my mom's doctor. We'd never talked to him or about him, so we'd also never learned his name or his number (which was one of my family's big mistakes).
When I did talk to the doctor, he didn't have a clue. He didn't know my mom was "that bad." He said he was trying to regulate her medicine, and I asked, "How are you going to know when her medicine was right?"
Do you know what he said?
He said: "I'll ask her."
Can you imagine asking a person with a mental illness to determine whether or not their medication is effective? What a moron!
I asked the doctor many other questions, too but he didn't have any answers. He couldn't give me one single solid answer!
He made me so angry I finally said, "Let's start over again and let me ask you some warm up questions like 'What's your name?' and 'What state do you live in?'"
Of course that made him mad, but it also made me realize that he was part of the problem, NOT part of the solution. I could never rely on him. So I went back to MY personal research.
It was the toughest nine months of my life, but it was worth it. Here's how all my dedicated research helped ME to cope and deal with my Mom’s borderline personality disorder.
ME BEFORE MY RESEARCH:
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ME AFTER MY RESEARCH: |
The difference this information has made in my life and in my family's life has been absolutely amazing
I know how much pain can result from not knowing how to cope and deal with a loved one’s anger from Borderline personality disorder.
But more importantly, I realized I now might hold the proverbial keys to the kingdom... because this information could be able to help many other families cope and deal with their loved one’s borderline personality disorder.
In this short and super concise guide you’ll discover:
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How to cope and deal with your loved one’s Borderline personality disorder in many different difficult situations |
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New strategies for dealing with your loved one's irrational behavior |
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What you really need to focus on if you want to get your loved one permanently back to his/her old self |
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An amazing technique to use against your loved one when he/she is mad at you and you don’t want to deal with them |
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The shocking truth about doctors and Borderline personality disorder. How they can make people worse |
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Why so many medications for borderline personality disorder fail and what YOU need to do about it to make them succeed even though you are NOT a doctor |
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Exactly what you should AND should not do when your loved one attacks… |
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How to cope and deal with your loved one’s borderline personality disorder in all different situations |
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6 specific ways to deal with your loved one's anger right now! |
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The #1 biggest mistake borderline supporters make BY FAR which ultimately can lead to years to decades of trouble with their loved one’s borderline personality disorder. |
I consulted EVERYBODY I knew from the literally hundreds of support groups I’ve attended over the years, paying particular attention to those who had be successful in stopping their loved one’s irrational behavior.
I also read everything available on the subject of borderline...
I listened to everything I could get my hands on…
I watched so many videos related to borderline personality disorder it started giving me mild anxiety.
Then I added my own VAST personal experiences with coping and dealing with MY Mom (who’s got Borderline in the most serious way) to develop this system…
Don’t let the size (Just 24) fool you. Over 500 hours of research went into this project.
It is truly, the best of the best there is, and the system is SIMPLE AND QUICK TO LEARN so you can implement this information immediately.
But before you make your decision, it’s important to me that you know…
There’s no sugar coating this: borderline personality disorder is nasty! Most people trying to deal with the person simply get destroyed. They wind up spending so much time, energy and money trying to deal with their loved one’s borderline personality disorder…they go virtually insane.
Can you imagine how much faster and easier it can be when you follow this system? Dozens of “Pioneers” before you have already made thousands of costly mistakes before figuring this all out.
Why re-invent the wheel when there ARE so many people out there who actually have been successful at coping and dealing with their loved one’s borderline personality disorder?
Imagine…
But in case you’re not yet convinced…
"Your information has helped our family tremendously! Our 15 year old son was diagnosed with borderline after years of psychiatrists and therapists, and finally having a diagnosis and learning about this illness has helped us to know it's not his fault, and not our fault, and has given us a clearer understanding of it and given us tools to help us to deal with it much more effectively and compassionately. Thank you for all you do and for the help you give people.
I highly recommend your information. Knowlege is power, and the more knowlege one can gain on borderline personality disorder, the more effectively and successfully you can live with it."
--Ann H.
Results may vary.
"I think your information is WONDERFUL!!! I really needed some validation myself that I was not going crazy. My Mother kept me so upset all the time with her symptoms and until I found out why she was acting and reacting as she has for many years now... if was just really down on myself and feeling like I was causing her to be the way she was…Thanks so much for all the work you have done and for sharing all the material that you do. Your Information is a Blessing."
--Vickey C
Results may vary.
"This material is very enlightening. I have a good friend who fits this pattern and your information educated me on this disorder. This information is very educational and I find it honestly real. David seems to know this subject and it is heartfelt, too, which is rare in this field."
--Rhonda A.
Results may vary.
"You need this course because it gives you a solid base. It helps you anchor and define and hold onto the fact that this is not your fault. It cannot predict when or where it will come from. It helps you keep your sanity."
--Kathy L.
Results may vary.
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A man who represents himself in court has a FOOL for a lawyer and we all know that people who don’t read the instructions SCREW things up.
If you don’t get assistance and help BEFORE you try to cope and deal with your loved one’s borderline personality disorder you could wind up wasting so much time, energy and money yourself not to mention make yourself almost go insane which you are probably at this point already.
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To Your Success,
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